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you are who you hear

Tim Keller, on navigating the water of today’s political crises:

The way to navigate such waters is still to follow the book of Proverbs’ prescription for your words. They must be honest, few, extremely well-crafted, usually calm, always aimed to edify (even when critical) and they must be accompanied with lots of silent listening.

I would only add—extremely critically, I think—that we must listen to, follow, praise, and simply pay attention only to those others who do this, or at least aim to do this, as well.